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ESCORT ADVICE FOR CLIENTS
There are plenty of “do’s and don’ts” when you are visiting Xiao Dimsum Vancouver Escort, but there’s no harm in adding another one, as it gives you a broader idea of what different escorts think is important. This is not an obnoxious list, but rather advice and warnings about behaviors that are annoying to most escorts.
Be on time
Please respect the escort’s time and schedule by not lingering. Even if the escort really enjoys her time with you, it can be annoying and embarrassing if you overstay your welcome. If you want more time, ask for it and if she agrees, you will need to pay the previously discussed rate.
Know what's on menu in advance and do not deviate from it.
Escorts use code words like CIM, greek, GFE, PSE …… Google these code words before calling or emailing.
Always be clean
Very, very clean. If you just came from work or whatever, take a quick shower at the location. You don’t want to be known as the ‘Smegma-Guy’. It’s as simple as that; give professional escorts the same respect as amateur escorts. Take a shower, shave, brush your teeth, and cut your nails. Change into clean clothes and do not smoke before meeting. If you are uncircumcised, clean the area under the foreskin thoroughly, and if you have any skin conditions, clean them properly and let her know what they are immediately after undressing. If you notice any signs of a sexually transmitted disease, seek medical attention immediately and do not attempt to date a girl until you have been declared clean by your doctor!
I know proper etiquette isn’t as common as it used to be, but come on, it’s not rocket science. Just remember all the things your mom taught you: ask instead of demand, say “thank you” at the end, answer the door at least in your bathrobe, take off your hat when there’s a woman in the room, and so on. You’ll be amazed at how much of a difference it makes to your experience when meeting escorts.
Make sure you’re committed
The sex industry is full of “time wasters and tire kickers” – potential clients who never follow up after contacting an escort. If you want your first booking to be successful, you must treat your clients with seriousness.
Many times, I have responded to the person’s email or text message, answered their questions, and checked my schedule to make sure I was available on the date they mentioned. However, after sending a reply …… it was nowhere to be found. This wasted effort was so discouraging that I was reluctant to engage with them if they contacted me again in the future.
This is why it is important to be committed before contacting a professional. Decide who you are interested in and when you want to meet them. Make sure you have enough money; asking for a discount never impresses anyone! Most importantly, don’t send your first message until you’re sure of the staff member you’ve chosen and are 100 percent sure you’ll show up on the day.
Otherwise, you risk missing out. Clients who inquire about a session but don’t follow up sometimes don’t get a second chance.
Pay immediately, and do it the right way
‘Payment up front’ is the golden rule of sex work. But what does this mean when you meet your escort for the first time?
It’s true that nothing sexy happens until your escort collects the payment and checks that it’s correct. So, that’s the first thing you need to do when you arrive (or perhaps the second, after saying ‘hello’). If you don’t do this right away, your escort will start to get antsy as they try to get you to pay without being rude.
Once the payment is taken care of, you can both relax and start enjoying your time together.
Always respect a 'no'
If your escort refuses anything, you must respect their wishes.
The ‘customer is always right’ doesn’t apply here – consensual sex is about two people working out what they want to do together. Just like you, your escort will have things they like and don’t like in the bedroom. If you don’t respect their wishes, your booking will end in failure. At best, you will be asked to leave. At worst, you may be accused of sexual assault.
If your staff member says “stop,” you must stop. If you hear “no,” say “thanks for letting me know” and suggest that you participate in another activity. Be respectful of “slow down” or “lighten up” as well. It’s not just about stopping when asked, it’s about making sure your escort is comfortable.
Of course, you have the same right. If it doesn’t feel right, you can take a break or stop and ask your escort to avoid any activity you don’t like.
Don’t be afraid to let us know – it’s our job to make sure you feel safe, and it’s your job to respect our bottom line.
When your time is up, your time is up.
As sex experts, our time is very valuable. After your appointment, we may have other appointments, so we can’t be late. Like I mentioned before, some clients are so bent on getting the most “action” out of their session that they will hold out for sex until the final bell rings. But this is very disrespectful to your chaperone and their time. It can take up to 10-15 minutes to finish and be ready to leave and you need to take this into account when booking …… Otherwise you may not be invited back.
When your escort tells you it’s almost time, it means you need to stop being sexy, maybe take a shower, pack up and get ready to leave. Don’t spend a long time showering or gossiping at the door! Overstaying your welcome may make your staff less enthusiastic about seeing you again.
Above all, use common sense and etiquette, treat escorts like any other businesswoman and you will not go wrong. You’ll be the kind of client that professionals love to see, not the kind we dread seeing, and you’ll find your experience more meaningful and fulfilling as a result. Finally, we welcome you to Xiao Dimsum Vancouver Escort!
